Delicate, Fragile, Precious!

You know life makes women become soldiers and warriors! They work as hard as men. They never punch clocks, or have down time especially if they have a family. They have many titles of responsibility and the world has conditioned them to think that they have to be and work as hard as men. Sadly, many of us do. They have to deny the way they feel and shut down their hearts because if they share ...they look weak and inferior! But this isn’t the way it’s supposed to be.

Women were created delicate, fragile and precious! She is a life giver. A helper. An intercessor. She carries the burdens of those she loves on her shoulders as she holds them up before God. She was created to love, serve, and nurture.

But She is expected to step into roles she was never created to walk in. She cries in private, smiles in public and puts on a tough exterior front to the world; when all she truly longs for is to be held, reassured, to feel safe and secure! To be treated as Delicate, fragile, and precious!

Even though she’s a graceful warrior she longs, at times to put down her weapons and be protected and rest. A woman can be as strong as she has to be but it’s never a choice she chooses freely. She rarely has the option to choose, she does because “give up”, isn’t in her vocabulary. There are far too many people relying on her keeping it together. Truth is she often feels like she’s falling apart!

You see God created us to walk alongside a man, to help him, to partner with him but when this isn’t our reality we throw all of that God given talent into those we do have.

A man was never meant to complete us or make us whole. They were simply given to us as protection, support, and rest! The security all women look for. It is God who makes us whole and complete.

But we all want a man to regard us as Delicate, fragile, and precious. To pursue us and make us feel as if we’re the only woman in the world. He only has eyes for us and he thinks about us throughout his day.

Many would argue, “they don’t need a man” And to some extent you’re absolutely correct... the truth is you just want the right one. I know there are some women completely content without a man but there are some of us who can keep living single but we want that promise of a Godly husband and someone to partner with! A placeholder will not suffice! A warm body will not give you what you need instead he’ll just suck you dry leaving you empty.

I’m personally looking for that one that regards me as Delicate, fragile, and precious not one that places me in a glass container and only interacts with me when its convenient for them but a man that actually takes into account my feelings and what I want and need as well. One that gives me 100% as I give my 100%. One that loves as hard as I do with efforts and actions not just empty promises and vain words.

I’m done with half hearted one sided relationships! I’d rather be an Anna in the temple serving the Lord day and night with prayer and fasting than living in a lopsided self centered relationship.

Regardless of my relationship status, I am woman...created to be beautiful, delicate, fragile, and precious! There is no one like me in all the earth, I am the original copy! I am a warrior, a fierce protector, a life giver, and “lay my life” down sacrificer to those I love. I will work my fingers to the bone and storm the gates of hell. Fearlessly refusing to quit or give up until my time here is done. The world May never regard me as Delicate, fragile, and precious but it’s exactly the way I am seen through the eyes of my daddy God!